About the song
In the realm of doo-wop music, few songs have captured the essence of teenage heartbreak and resilience quite like “Big Girls Don’t Cry” by Frankie Vallie and The Four Seasons. Released in 1962, this iconic track became an immediate sensation, resonating with young and old alike. Its enduring popularity stems from its poignant lyrics, infectious melody, and the unforgettable vocal performance by Vallie.
The song delves into the universal experience of heartbreak, particularly as seen through the eyes of a young man struggling to cope with the loss of his love. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of emotional turmoil, with lines like “I’m so lonely, I could cry” and “I just don’t understand why” expressing the depth of the narrator’s pain. Yet, amidst the sadness, there is a glimmer of hope and defiance. The refrain, “Big girls don’t cry,” serves as a mantra for the protagonist, urging him to maintain his composure and move forward.
Vallie’s vocal delivery is a key element in the song’s success. His distinctive falsetto, coupled with his emotive performance, brings the lyrics to life with raw authenticity. The Four Seasons’ harmonies provide a rich backdrop, complementing Vallie’s lead vocals and adding depth to the overall sound.
“Big Girls Don’t Cry” has been covered countless times over the years, testifying to its enduring appeal. Its impact extends beyond the realm of music, resonating with listeners of all ages and backgrounds. The song’s timeless message of heartbreak, resilience, and the power of human emotion continues to touch hearts and inspire generations.
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Lyrics
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cryBig girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (who said they don’t cry?)
My girl said goodbye-yi-yi (my oh my)
My girl didn’t cry (I wonder why)(Silly boy) told my girl we had to break up
(Silly boy) hoped that she would call my bluff
(Silly boy) then she said to my surprise
“Big girls don’t cry”Big girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (that’s just an alibi)(Maybe) I was cru-u-uel (I was cruel)
Baby I’m a fool (I’m such a fool)(Silly girl) “Shame on you” your mama said
(Silly girl) “Shame on you, you’re cryin’ in bed”
(Silly girl) Shame on you, you told a lie
Big girls do cryBig girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (that’s just an alibi)
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry