About the song
Lesley Gore, a young, fresh-faced teenager, burst onto the music scene in the early 1960s with a voice that belied her age. Her second single, “You Don’t Own Me,” would become her signature song, a defiant anthem that resonated with women of all generations.
Released in 1963, “You Don’t Own Me” was more than just a catchy tune. It was a declaration of independence, a bold statement against the societal norms of the time. In an era when women were often relegated to domestic roles and expected to conform to traditional gender expectations, Gore’s song offered a refreshing alternative.
The lyrics, penned by John Madara and David White, were empowering and provocative. The singer asserts her autonomy, refusing to be controlled or defined by a man. She challenges the double standards that often plagued relationships, demanding respect and equality. With lines like “I don’t need you to say what I can do, I don’t need you to play me for a fool,” Gore’s message was clear: women are capable of making their own choices and should not be treated as possessions.
The song’s impact was immediate. It quickly climbed the charts, becoming a symbol of female empowerment and inspiring a generation of young women. Gore herself embraced the song’s message, often describing it as a powerful tool for expressing her own independence.
Over the years, “You Don’t Own Me” has continued to resonate with audiences. Its timeless lyrics and infectious melody have ensured its enduring popularity. The song has been covered by countless artists, from SayGrace to Dusty Springfield, each bringing their own unique interpretation to the classic.
Today, “You Don’t Own Me” stands as a testament to the power of music to inspire and challenge. It is a song that continues to empower women and remind us of the importance of individuality and self-determination.
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Lyrics
You don’t own me
I’m not just one of your many toys
You don’t own me
Don’t say I can’t go with other boys
And don’t tell me what to do
Don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display ’cause
You don’t own me
Don’t try to change me in any way
You don’t own me
Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay
I don’t tell you what to say
I don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of you
I’m young and I love to be young
I’m free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please
And don’t tell me what to do
Oh, don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display
I don’t tell you what to say
Oh, don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of you
I’m young and I love to be young
I’m free and I love to be free