About the song
“Stand by Your Man” is a classic country music anthem recorded by the iconic American country artist Tammy Wynette. Co-written by Wynette and Billy Sherrill, the song was released on September 20, 1968, as the lead single and title track of her album “Stand by Your Man.” It went on to become Wynette’s most successful recording and one of the most recognizable songs in country music history. The song topped the charts, showcasing Wynette’s powerful vocals and poignant storytelling.
The lyrics portray a steadfast devotion to a partner despite their flaws, encouraging women to support their men through thick and thin (“Stand by your man, give him two arms to cling to”). The song’s narrative resonated deeply with audiences, reflecting traditional gender roles and loyalty in relationships, which garnered both acclaim and criticism amidst the feminist movements of the late 1960s and early 1970s.
Upon its release, “Stand by Your Man” quickly ascended to the number one position on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart, maintaining this spot for three consecutive weeks. Its crossover appeal was evident as it also reached number 19 on the Billboard Hot 100, demonstrating its broad popularity beyond country music circles. Internationally, the song topped charts in the United Kingdom in 1975 and also reached number one in the Netherlands.
The song’s success propelled Tammy Wynette to superstar status, earning her a Grammy Award in 1970 for Best Country Vocal Performance, Female. It was her second Grammy win in this category, solidifying her influence and contribution to country music. In 1999, “Stand by Your Man” was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, recognizing its cultural, historical, and aesthetic significance.
Despite some criticism for its conservative stance, Wynette maintained that the song was not intended to convey social or political messages but rather to express universal themes of love and commitment. Its enduring popularity is reflected in its inclusion in cultural references such as films like “Five Easy Pieces” (1970) starring Jack Nicholson and TV shows like “The Wonder Years.”
Over the years, “Stand by Your Man” has been covered by various artists, including The Chicks, whose version sparked discussion due to its context in relation to their song “Goodbye Earl.” It continues to be performed and revered in the country music genre, with notable renditions by Carrie Underwood and its appearance in contemporary media like Netflix’s “Country Comfort.”
“Stand by Your Man” remains a pivotal song not only in Tammy Wynette’s career but also in the broader landscape of country music, embodying timeless themes of loyalty, love, and resilience that continue to resonate with audiences worldwide. Its legacy as a cultural touchstone and musical treasure persists, solidifying its place among the greatest songs of all time.
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Lyrics
Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman
Giving all your love to just one man
You’ll have bad times
And he’ll have good times
Doin’ things that you don’t understand
But if you love him you’ll forgive him
Even though he’s hard to understand
And if you love him, oh be proud of him
‘Cause after all he’s just a man
Stand by your man
Give him two arms to cling to
And something warm to come to
When nights are cold and lonely
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man