About the song
John Prine, a beloved figure in American folk music, and Iris DeMent, a contemporary singer-songwriter known for her soulful voice and poignant lyrics, joined forces for the unforgettable duet “In Spite of Ourselves.” Released in 1999 on Prine’s album In Spite of Myself, this song is a testament to the enduring power of love and the resilience of the human spirit.
The song’s narrative unfolds through a series of humorous and touching anecdotes, highlighting the quirks and imperfections that often define relationships. Prine and DeMent’s harmonies create a sense of intimacy and camaraderie, as they share stories of mishaps, misunderstandings, and the simple joys of companionship. The lyrics are filled with witty observations and relatable experiences, making the song both entertaining and thought-provoking.
“In Spite of Ourselves” is a celebration of the enduring nature of love, even in the face of adversity. The song’s message is universal, resonating with listeners of all ages and backgrounds. Prine and DeMent’s performances are both heartfelt and humorous, capturing the essence of a long-lasting relationship. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its timeless appeal and the enduring power of its message.
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Lyrics
She don’t like her eggs all runny
She thinks crossin’ her legs is funny
She looks down her nose at money
She gets it on like the Easter Bunny
She’s my baby, I’m her honey
I’m never gonna let her go
He ain’t got laid in a month of Sundays
I caught him once and he was sniffin’ my undies
He ain’t too sharp but he gets things done
Drinks his beer like it’s oxygen
He’s my baby, and I’m his honey
Never gonna let him go
In spite of ourselves
We’ll end up a-sittin’ on a rainbow
Against all odds
Honey, we’re the big door prize
We’re gonna spite
Our noses right off of our faces
There won’t be nothin’ but big old hearts
Dancin’ in our eyes
She thinks all my jokes are corny
Convict movies make her horny
She likes ketchup on her scrambled eggs
Swears like a sailor when she shaves her legs
She takes a lickin’ and keeps on tickin’
I’m never gonna let her go
He’s got more balls than a big brass monkey
He’s a wacked out werido and a lovebug junkie
Sly as a fox and crazy as a loon
Payday comes and he’s howlin’ at the moon
He’s my baby, I don’t mean maybe
Never gonna let him go
In spite of ourselves
We’ll end up a-sittin’ on a rainbow
Against all odds
Honey, we’re the big door prize
We’re gonna spite
Our noses right off of our faces
There won’t be nothin’ but big old hearts
Dancin’ in our eyes
In spite of ourselves
We’ll end up a-sittin’ on a rainbow
Against all odds
Honey, we’re the big door prize
We’re gonna spite
Our noses right off of our faces
There won’t be nothin’ but big old hearts
Dancin’ in our eyes
There won’t be nothin’ but big old hearts
Dancin’ in our eyes
In spite of ourselves