About the song
Released in 1972, Loving Her Was Easier is a heartfelt ballad that has stood the test of time. Written and performed by the legendary country music singer-songwriter, Kris Kristofferson, this song offers a poignant reflection on love, loss, and the complexities of human relationships.
Kristofferson’s ability to craft lyrics that are both simple and profound is evident in this song. Loving Her Was Easier is a narrative that many listeners can relate to. It paints a vivid picture of a love that was once easy and carefree, but has now become complicated and challenging. The song explores themes of regret, longing, and the bittersweet nature of memories.
The melody of the song is both soothing and melancholic, perfectly complementing the lyrics. Kristofferson’s rich, baritone voice adds depth and emotion to the performance, making it easy for listeners to become immersed in the story. The song’s arrangement is sparse, allowing the vocals and lyrics to take center stage.
Loving Her Was Easier has been covered by numerous artists over the years, a testament to its enduring appeal. Its universal themes of love and loss have resonated with audiences across generations. The song’s simplicity and honesty have made it a classic of the country music genre.
Why this song continues to resonate:
- Relatable themes: The song’s exploration of love, loss, and regret are universal themes that many people can relate to.
- Timeless melody: The melody is both beautiful and memorable, making it easy to listen to and enjoy.
- Honest and heartfelt lyrics: Kristofferson’s lyrics are both simple and profound, capturing the essence of the human experience.
- Enduring appeal: The song’s timeless quality has ensured its popularity for decades.
Whether you’re a longtime fan of Kris Kristofferson or simply appreciate great country music, Loving Her Was Easier is a song that is well worth listening to. Its honest portrayal of love and loss is sure to strike a chord with anyone who has ever experienced heartbreak.
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Lyrics
I was runnin’ through the summer rain, try’n’ to catch that evenin’ train
And kill the old familiar pain weavin’ through my tangled brain
When I tipped my bottle back and smacked into a cop I didn’t see
That police man said, “Mister Cool, if you ain’t drunk, then you’re a
fool.”
I said, “If that’s against the law, then tell me why I never saw
A man locked in that jail of yours who wasn’t neither black or poor as
me?”
Well, that was when someone turned out the lights
And I wound up in jail to spend the night
And dream of all the wine and lonely girls
In this best of all possible worlds.
Well, I woke up next mornin’ feelin’ like my head was gone
And like my thick old tongue was lickin’ something sick and wrong
And I told that man I’d sell my soul for something wet and cold as that
old cell.
That kindly jailer grinned at me, all eaten up with sympathy
Then poured himself another beer and came and whispered in my ear,
“If booze was just a dime a bottle boy, you couldn’t even buy the smell”
I said, “I knew there was something I liked about this town.”
But it takes more than that to bring me down, down, down.
‘Cause there’s still a lot of wine and lonely girls
In this best of all possible worlds
Well, they finally came and told me they was a gonna set me free
And I’d be leavin’ town if I knew what was good for me
I said, “It’s nice to learn that ev’rybody’s so concerned about my
health.”
(They were obsessed with it)
I said, “I won’t be leavin’ no more quicker than I can
‘Cause I’ve enjoyed about as much of this as I can stand
And I don’t need this town of yours more than I never needed nothin’
else.”
‘Cause there’s still a lot of drinks that I ain’t drunk
And lots of pretty thoughts that I ain’t thunk
And lord there’s still so many lonely girls
In this best of all possible worlds.